The Law of Attraction: What You Focus On, You Invite In

Understanding How Energy Shapes Experience — for You and Your Child

The Law of Attraction has become one of the most talked-about spiritual principles in recent years — and for good reason. It teaches us that: We attract into our lives whatever we focus on — whether wanted or unwanted. But when we go beyond the surface of this idea, we discover something deeper: The Law of Attraction isn’t about wishful thinking or forced positivity. It’s about energetic alignment — and how the thoughts, emotions, and beliefs we carry create a kind of frequency that draws in life experiences to match.

What Is the Law of Attraction, Really?

At its core, the Law of Attraction says that the energy you emit is like a radio signal, and the universe sends back matching frequencies. When you focus on peace, gratitude, and trust…You create space for more of that to enter your life. When you focus on fear, lack, or anxiety…You tend to receive circumstances that reflect those vibrations. It’s not punishment,  it’s resonance. The universe simply responds to your internal state.

The Parenting Perspective: What You Model, You Magnify

This law becomes especially meaningful when you look at it through the eyes of a parent. Children learn more from your vibration than your instructions.

• If you approach life with joy, optimism, and curiosity, they absorb that.
• If you live in constant worry, stress, or lack, they absorb that too.

But here’s the beauty: You don’t have to be perfect. You only have to be aware. Every moment offers a new chance to shift — to refocus, to realign, to choose again. That is the essence of conscious parenting.

A Gentle Practice

Ask yourself: What am I focusing on right now — and is it aligned with what I truly want to experience or invite into my home? If not, don’t panic. Just pivot. Even the smallest shift in thought can begin to change the energy you emit.

Try this:

Think of something you’re truly grateful for, even just for 30 seconds.

• Watch how your body softens.
• That’s your frequency shifting, and it’s powerful.

Supporting Your Child with the Law of Attraction

You can gently introduce this idea to your child, too, without dogma or pressure.

Try:

• A bedtime “gratitude circle” where you each name one wonderful thing from your day.
• Asking, “What kind of day would you like to attract tomorrow?”
• Helping them reframe a negative moment with compassion and possibility.

This isn’t about making them avoid hard feelings, it’s about teaching them that their energy is creative. And that’s a gift they’ll carry for life.

📚Recommended Reading

To dive deeper into the Law of Attraction (and how it applies to everyday life and parenting), try these:

• Ask and It Is Given by Esther and Jerry Hicks — includes processes and emotional guidance tools
• The Secret by Rhonda Byrne is a mainstream introduction to the LOA
• The Map: Finding the Magic and Meaning in the Story of Your Life by Colette Baron-Reid explores how      perception shapes reality
• Creative Visualization by Shakti Gawain — an early and powerful work on conscious creation

What Comes Next…

The Law of Attraction opens the door — but it’s only the beginning.

To truly live a soul-aligned life, we need to take inspired action, release control, tend to our energy, and trust divine timing — all of which you can now explore in the other posts in this series. But today, just notice your focus. Nurture the energy you want to grow. And remember that your attention is a sacred force.